My mother has always told me that you never get over your first love
fully, thus there are always inevitable lingering feelings. However, I
reflect on my past relationships as learning experiences rather then
regrets. You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince!!
Just remember, still having some feelings for a past love is normal and (usually) innocent. Always know that each and every one of us deserves the utmost best and don't allow those lingering feelings to undermine the potential for a new relationship.
Just remember, still having some feelings for a past love is normal and (usually) innocent. Always know that each and every one of us deserves the utmost best and don't allow those lingering feelings to undermine the potential for a new relationship.
this is so true and such great advice whitney! i question my feelings for my first love quite a bit but always try to remember that we broke up for a reason. i guess sometimes when i feel alone i think it'd be better to have someone rather than no one...but deep down, i know that's not the case.
you're the best!
-jules
p.s. this movie looks so good!
Wise words lady! It's so hard to move on sometimes and not compare men with each other even though they do not deserve that!
This is so true!!!
Have a nice day sweet Whitney,
Ludovica
hi, whitney I soo needed to here this "Just remember, still having some feelings for a past love is normal and (usually) innocent."
Is it normal or do we tend to forget why it didn't work and only look at this looks and the illusion we create in our minds of how he should act. we know we deserve the best and still get stuck on the person who doesn't value you. even though you know its time to move on his not going to change or grow up and if he does its not with you.
Whitney,
I agree with you completely! I just wanted to leave you a little note to say how much I truly appreciate the kind of role model you are. You aren't much older than me...I'm 21, but I really do respect you and love keeping up with your life with your blog and The City! Its amazing how far you've come already being so young. You really are an inspiration to me to try my hardest at everything I do and work hard at school, my fashion, and my inner self as well. i just wanted to let you know :)
xoxo
Jessica
Hi Whit!
I live very far from you, but i love your clothes!
I just want to ask when we can by your dresses
here in hungary (central-europe) I am sure that
there are a lot of people here to who loves your
dresses!
csók
Zsófi
Hey Whitney,
First off I just wanted to say that I think you speak the truth, especially with this posting. Now I have two questions..
1. Any chance you know who your dress/belt/or gloves were by that you wore in the City season 2 promo? I've been looking for those pieces..
2. Is there any chance one day that you'll write up a little biography strictly about your career? I'm pretty sure you'd have a million people interested in the story. Especially for those girls who are interested in fashion and hope to work within the industry, like myself, knowing how others got there and that's it's possible to achieve would be unbelievably inspirational.
hey whitney
i watch the city and really love it.
you seem really funny and genuine.
i''ve been on-off with a guy for four years now, and he is my first love. although i was never sure before whether or not to let him go reading what you've written has given me some clarity.
i shouldn't be settling because i'm afraid to be alone.
by the way, you're dress designs are amazing
You are so right. You should have your own advice column! Me and my best friend looove the hills and you always gave Lauren such good advice.
You are such a beautiful and nice girl, I hope your clothing line will be available in the UK.
Much love from Scotland!
"rather THEN"?
Go learn some proper grammar, stupid.
Hee, Whitney!!
I have dated a swedish guy for four months
and we have had such a close, tender time together. But it went wrong somewhere and it all has to do with misunderstanding and communication.
Now we are "friends"
but he already seemed to have move on with his life. I haven't cause I daily think of him, and i just miss him.
and I think you're right!
i'm gonna try to focuss on myself and school.
but it's hard dough...
You are great withney and this is so true we never forget our first love, i never forgot mine and when i see him it always makes me feel strange but i am with a guy for now 2 years and a half and i love him with all my heart so it is possible to love someone when u still didn't forget your first love...
You are the best in the city and i am a huge fan!
Tanya
I love you girl!!! By far. Kisses.
Whitney,
I just want to say that you are so inspiring, I mean you put this on here and it's things like this that really lift ppl up and make them feel worth something! I have to tell you that I personally have gone through a tough situation with love recently and hearing you say this and being able to read it when I come to your site really makes me believe things are going to be okay! Thank you so much for being such an awesome chica!! ;D I love you!! Always stay true to yourself and don't let anyone change how sweet you are!
<3 Savannah
Oklahoma City, OK
you´re so right! :) and nice that you share it with you´re readers. I really like how you make up now a days. very chic! :)
hello , whitney
I watch the city. You always look great on the show ,whitney. I love your style and the way you look .I would really love to see your clothes, but I living in Sweden ,.. ( too far )
.. hope for one I'll have a chance to wear your clothes ..
Poy ...
Helsingborg, Sweden